Maybe you've read all the books and nothing has really worked, and you've already secretly started to wonder if there is something wrong with you as a parent - or you're worrying there might be something wrong with your kid.
I promise: in all likelihood, you are both GOOD, and FINE, and CAN THRIVE.
IN ALL OF THE HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS OF FAMILIES I HAVE WORKED WITH, we have only had to escalate care a small handful of times...
The real problem is this:
For some reason we as a society don't give parents pertinent information you NEED. (Be honest: you probably got a better manual for your last Ikea bookcase than you did for your kid.)