(Theirs. And yours!)

None of us ever dreamed of having power struggles with our kids all day.

What we really wanted was to be loving, confident, and effective leaders.

<< We wanted for those we love to grow and flourish under our care. >> 

And all of that is entirely possible, but it requires a scientific understanding of how our brains actually work, and some mentorship to shift a few behavioral habits. Once shifted, the results are precise, repeatable, and fantastically freeing for us as parents.

Read Another Parent's BEFORE and AFTER

So I have a 3 1/2 and a 14 month old. I barely get a shower. I stay at home with them and my son is in preschool 3 days a week. 

They are killing me. My son is super jealous of my little girl. We do everything we can to spend alone time and make him feel good. He is constantly pushing her, taking things, hitting, kicking....she is now scared of him. We have tried many approaches. And nothing is working. 

I am already so beat down and tired that dealing with this is really pushing my buttons. I have yelled at my son 2 or 3 times this weekend when I know keeping my cool will be better, but I'm at my wits end. I am a chill person and I feel rage. I cannot deal. Help!!

Real Time Parenting has been the most helpful, game changing and grounding information I've been given as a parent. I have such great tools now, whereas before I had read and google searched every parenting topic and tried applying them with no change.

My son and daughter have such a great relationship now. Do they fight? Yes. But after absorbing this method I really can say I have such a great support. When my kids fight, I know how to react to help them. When my son throws tantrums I can help. My own rage and anger is under control (most of the time). Parenting seems so much clearer now than it did.

I truly believe I am doing 100 times better and I feel confident we are truly happy as a family. Is parenting difficult?? Yes everyday, but I really do feel like I am giving my kids more than I received as a child now. I feel so lucky I found Real Time Parenting.

Imagine, for a moment, that you knew:

  • the science of how our brains work (kids and grown ups)
  • how even a basic understanding of this neuroscience would help you stop the powers struggles in your home
  • how to see and tap into your child's inherent goodness and ACTIVATE it
  • how to help your children find their own resilience and grit
  • how to help your child move beyond stuck fears
  • how to create a bond with your children that lasts for life
  • how to work with emotional outbursts so that you had a smarter stronger kid on the other end
  • how to understand what is really going on under that sibling rivalry, so it can transform into true friendship
  • how to set effective limits WITHOUT ANGER
  • how to get yourself the support YOU need so you know just what to do in case you lose your cool. 
  • and the 5 AMAZING tools of Hand in Hand Parenting.

Well that is exactly what you learn in The 30 DAY FAMILY RESET!

Small Amount of Time.

Huge Return on Investment.


  • FIVE weekly 90 minute group classes, held live via an online meeting app.


A BONUS video course that accompanies the live course. 30 videos (each 15-20 minutes long) that you can watch on your own time. 

The video lessons are the road map. The group class is the actual road trip. Together they make for an amazing experience. 

It would cost over $1000 dollars of private sessions for me to share this much information with you, and the group itself would be an additional $400. But I know not everyone has the luxury of being able to take class with me in person, or the financial ability to do so many private sessions. So I created this course because I believe it is every parent's right to have this critical information that has literally changed my life, and the lives of so many other parents. 

The full 30 Day Family Reset is $397. There is also an option for a self guided version of the class with the videos only for $147.



By the end of this class, you will be a master ninja at the "simple" things like knowing how to get your kids to put their own shoes on, do their homework, manage chores, and even leave the house on time! 

You will also have learned the neuroscience behind how to create a bond with your children that lasts for life. With this information, you will be a safe place your kids can rely on as they move into the turbulent teen years. They need your guidance, and when you parent like this, they will actually seek it too!


100% Risk Free

If you don't feel like The 30 Day Family Reset has been of genuine value to you, then you are free to get a full refund within the first 30 days after purchase. 

Yep, even if you watched the videos. I trust you and your judgment completely. 

(And please know that anything you have shared with me, including your email, remains safe between us.)

On Your Own Time

You decide how long it takes you to go through the whole course. Do it in the 30 days, or make it last a whole year. Or do it over and over again over throughout the year!

Got questions? Here are some answers.


When does the group class meet?

Each class is open to 6 parents only. Once each loop is set to go, we all work together to find the best time for the group. We always find a time that works for everyone, and just the act of finding a time together becomes the first major commitment of "coming together" that the group makes, and results in a group that can work very deeply, with a lot of trust. If for whatever reason we could not find a time that works in your current schedule, you are always welcome to jump into the next loop (or get a refund).

What if my kids are older? Or younger? Will this still work?

These tools work for kids of any age. They will also work with your spouse, in your workplace, and anywhere else you choose to use them. They are relationship based tools that enhance cooperation and help you learn how not to trigger people's brains into a protective, defensive state. Once your brain is working effectively and cleanly, you can help support the brain function of those around you. And when you do that, parenting - and life - becomes a whole lot more enjoyable. All of that said, as I teach, I will mostly be giving examples of children aged two to twelve.

I've tried everything, and nothing works. Why would this be any different?

Almost all parenting advice out there involves some form of coercive attempt to control behavior - either through bribes, shame or punishment, under the assumption that is the only or best way for children to learn. This is what keeps so many of us trapped in such an unhappy game. I do not teach "parenting tricks" or ways to incentivize or punish your child. I teach you why and how to have the kind of relationship that will naturally result in better behavior. Anything less than that, and you will be "behavior chasing" forever. We want lasting health, not a band-aid. If you want to see how effective this kind of paradigm shift has been for other parents, click here

Do I have to complete the course within the 30 days?

Absolutely not. We parents are busy and each of us have our own needs and schedules. Please watch the course and do the daily challenges I give you at your own pace. We will schedule the group class at a time that works for you, and the videos are yours to go through as you can. Most people move through them pretty quickly as they tend to find them interesting and enjoyable,

I'm in crisis! Can I complete the course in less than 30 days?

I am sorry to hear things are so tough right now. If you need to work with me right away, you are welcome to schedule a private session HERE. While the course itself cannot be sped up from the 30 days (as it really does take that long to retrain your brain and theirs) I do send the lessons weekly, so you can get a jumpstart on the first seven all at once if you like. But please remember to do the daily challenges. They are important, and they are what will set you up for success and the greatest transformation. Many parents see changes from Day One. And let me just say - I have plenty of hope for wherever you are right now. You are resilient and so are your children. 

What are your certifications?

I am a certified consultant for Hand in Hand Parenting, and also the mother of two boys. I have worked with hundreds of families (see their experiences here) but am not a psychologist. Please use your discretion as to what will serve your family best. 

You've got dreams about what you wanted parenting to feel like.
But here's the thing:


is not the same as


You've got to TAKE ACTION

if you want tomorrow

to look different than today.