So I have a 3 1/2 and a 14 month old. I barely get a shower. I stay at home with them and my son is in preschool 3 days a week.
They are killing me. My son is super jealous of my little girl. We do everything we can to spend alone time and make him feel good. He is constantly pushing her, taking things, hitting, kicking....she is now scared of him. We have tried many approaches. And nothing is working.
I am already so beat down and tired that dealing with this is really pushing my buttons. I have yelled at my son 2 or 3 times this weekend when I know keeping my cool will be better, but I'm at my wits end. I am a chill person and I feel rage. I cannot deal. Help!!
Real Time Parenting has been the most helpful, game changing and grounding information I've been given as a parent. I have such great tools now, whereas before I had read and google searched every parenting topic and tried applying them with no change.
My son and daughter have such a great relationship now. Do they fight? Yes. But after absorbing this method I really can say I have such a great support. When my kids fight, I know how to react to help them. When my son throws tantrums I can help. My own rage and anger is under control (most of the time). Parenting seems so much clearer now than it did.
I truly believe I am doing 100 times better and I feel confident we are truly happy as a family. Is parenting difficult?? Yes everyday, but I really do feel like I am giving my kids more than I received as a child now. I feel so lucky I found Real Time Parenting.
Week 5: Days 29 & 30 - Learning how to support YOURSELF as you support everyone else. This is crucial to your long term success. Also, tools for how to handle your own moods so you can keep yourself in optimal mental and emotional shape. You've raised your game by now. These are the tools that will keep you there. During this last week, you will also receive the last two videos in which you get to see how far you have come, celebrate all you have achieved, and then I make sure to set you up with some guidelines so you can enjoy continued, lasting success.
Throughout the course, we also cover any questions you may have on topics such as sibling rivalry, screens, etc. I will show you how to use the tools you have just learned to be able to handle these subjects and anything else you may have on your minds.
By the end of this class, you will be a master ninja at the "simple" things like knowing how to get your kids to put their own shoes on, do their homework, manage chores, and even leave the house on time!
You will also have learned the neuroscience behind how to create a bond with your children that lasts for life. With this information, you will be a safe place your kids can rely on as they move into the turbulent teen years. They need your guidance, and when you parent like this, they will actually seek it too!
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If you don't feel like The 30 Day Family Reset has been of genuine value to you, then you are free to get a full refund within the first 30 days after purchase.
Yep, even if you watched the videos. I trust you and your judgment completely.
(And please know that anything you have shared with me, including your email, remains safe between us.)
You decide how long it takes you to go through the whole course. Do it in the 30 days, or make it last a whole year. The course is yours for life.
""Abigail is amazing. Her class really changed my life in a lot of ways and made parenting way more fun for me. Although I am a licensed marriage and family therapist and spent 4 years of my clinical training working with children in various settings I learned more helpful information from her than I did in many of my professional studies. She also made me laugh! Even though she had critical information to teach us about the hard work of parenting she managed to not take herself too seriously and encouraged many opportunities for laughter. I have recommended her class to many of my friends and clients and will continue to do so. She is a wonderful resource for parents.""
Each class is open to 6 parents only. Once each loop is set to go, we all work together to find the best time for the group. We always find a time that works for everyone, and just the act of finding a time together becomes the first major commitment of "coming together" that the group makes, and results in a group that can work very deeply, with a lot of trust. If for whatever reason we could not find a time that works in your current schedule, you are always welcome to jump into the next loop (or get a refund).
These tools work for kids of any age. They will also work with your spouse, in your workplace, and anywhere else you choose to use them. They are relationship based tools that enhance cooperation and help you learn how not to trigger people's brains into a protective, defensive state. Once your brain is working effectively and cleanly, you can help support the brain function of those around you. And when you do that, parenting - and life - becomes a whole lot more enjoyable. All of that said, as I teach, I will mostly be giving examples of children aged two to twelve.
Almost all parenting advice out there involves some form of coercive attempt to control behavior - either through bribes, shame or punishment, under the assumption that is the only or best way for children to learn. This is what keeps so many of us trapped in such an unhappy game. I do not teach "parenting tricks" or ways to incentivize or punish your child. I teach you why and how to have the kind of relationship that will naturally result in better behavior. Anything less than that, and you will be "behavior chasing" forever. We want lasting health, not a band-aid. If you want to see how effective this kind of paradigm shift has been for other parents, click here.
Absolutely not. We parents are busy and each of us have our own needs and schedules. Please watch the course and do the daily challenges I give you at your own pace. We will schedule the group class at a time that works for you, and the videos are yours to go through as you can. Most people move through them pretty quickly as they tend to find them interesting and enjoyable,
I am sorry to hear things are so tough right now. If you need to work with me right away, you are welcome to schedule a private session HERE. While the course itself cannot be sped up from the 30 days (as it really does take that long to retrain your brain and theirs) I do send the lessons weekly, so you can get a jumpstart on the first seven all at once if you like. But please remember to do the daily challenges. They are important, and they are what will set you up for success and the greatest transformation. Many parents see changes from Day One. And let me just say - I have plenty of hope for wherever you are right now. You are resilient and so are your children.
I am a certified consultant for Hand in Hand Parenting, and also the mother of two boys. I have worked with hundreds of families (see their experiences here) but am not a psychologist. Please use your discretion as to what will serve your family best.
(We kids just think they're fun, but she says they make us nicer to be around.)