Hello Homework!
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It's the beginning of fall, and as surely as leaves will drop, so will the homework. Pages and pages of it. Sometimes whole binders worth. Homework can be the source of many arguments in the home and I wanted to take a look at why, and what we can do about it.
In order to really understand what's going on, it helps to look at what's happening for both the parents and the kids, because homework is challenging for both of us in ways that are diametrically opposed, and this is how we so often wind up in conflict.
AS PARENTS, we may be feeling:
- a very understandable desire for our child to "do well." We may even be concerned that if our child can't do homework well, they won't do well in school, and then they won't do well in life.
- Sometimes our own bad memories about school may be getting unconsciously stirred...
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Hi! I'm Abigail.
Want to know the question I have been obsessed with for the last ten years?
If parenting is so amazing (which it IS), then why is it that the experience of parenting so often sucks? I have spent the last ten years finding answers to this question, and building systems that successfully transform the every day job of parenting into the intellectually stimulating, emotionally thrilling ride that something inside us knows it was meant to be.
Because hey, we are not just quesadilla makers; we are also soul shapers. This job we do is profound. It's time we acknowledged that, and if you need help along the road, I am here my friend. I promise, the light you dreamed of in your heart - it's real. And it's ok to ask for help to know how to turn it on. ❤️
